Women are never impure
Story line
She was 13 when she got her first period.
Being the only sister in the family, she didn’t know whom to tell and what to
do. She finally had enough courage to go tell her mom. With the fear of
something bad happening to her family, she was immediately sent to the
shed. She was terrified as there was no room for her in the shed.
Amidst the cold winter, she ate rice with sugar as she froze in the cold while
her family ate warm food in the house. She wasn’t allowed to go anywhere
or touch anyone for 10 days. She was discriminated and humiliated when she got
her period as she was considered “impure”. She slept next to a goat at night to
keep herself warm. She couldn’t feel the warmth as she was forbidden to see the
sun.
Why such ill practices?
In Nepal, when girls get their period for
the first time, they are not allowed to be exposed to the sun. They are not
allowed to see any men when they're menstruating. They cannot go to temples
because they are considered "impure". Due to misconceptions about
religion, it is believed that God will curse a menstruating woman who uses
river water or a public tap, or touches a priest, religious books,
flowers which are considered holy in Hinduism. They can't touch or water
the plants because they won't grow. They are forbidden from eating meat, milk
products, fruits and vegetables as they will contaminate the food source.
Most of the girls also face psychological problems. Misinformation about menstruation causes them to escalate the fear. Beside, all these practice to abstain from going to school also hampers the education of the girls. Many young girls are detained from going to school during their periods. If girls miss four to six days worth of classes every month, how will they take their studies further? This will affect the chances of them competing with the male students.
The minimum price of a packet sanitary napkin is Rs. 60 which is not affordable to many women in the rural area. To replace sanitary pad, women in rural areas use things like mud, old rags, dried cow dung cakes, wood husk,a piece of cloth and even ash to contain menstrual blood. Not only are these things dangerous to the health, but they are also inconvenient to use and hinder day to day activity of women who use them. Cultural beliefs that render menstruation as a dirty phase in women’s lives have long deprived women access to proper menstrual hygiene management. If hygienic practices are not followed during menstruation like changing pads or tampons four times a day, washing and drying out reusable sanitary towels properly in the sun and washing hands after handling used sanitary pads; then the chances of getting Urogenital Tract Infection increases and Candidiasis (a yeast infection).Dangerous bacteria can also invade the genital tract and can cause Reproductive Tract Infection.
What is the remedy?
I think most of these are prevalent because
people have incomplete/mis information about what menstruation is. A natural
biological process, menstruation, or period, is normal vaginal bleeding that
occurs as part of a woman's monthly cycle. Every month, our body prepares for
pregnancy. If no pregnancy occurs, the uterus, or womb, sheds its lining. The
menstrual blood is partly blood and partly tissue from inside the uterus. Many
women get cramps or other symptoms during their periods that may be uncomfortable.
This is due to the hormones our body releases during menstruation that cause
the uterus to contract so it can shed its lining. During this phase, women can
experience headaches, swelling and weight gain. On average menstruation starts
at age 12 and ends at age 52. Awareness
about menstruation helps to drive out most of the problems related to
menstruation.
In such times, the young girls seek for the support and love of the family members rather than to be locked in a shed. It is also appropriate to provide proper knowledge about nutritious and hygienic foods to keep body immune against any types of health hazards. Similarly to ensure proper hygiene during the period, government should reduce the price of sanitary napkins and tampons. This will increase the reach of the poor women to such healthy habits and will encourage them to use them. The sanitary napkins should be easily accessible even in rural areas of the country.
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